What does it take to send a child into the world with courage, wisdom, and a steady heart?
Thobekile Finger’s newly released A Mother’s Prayer: The Stuff They Don’t Tell You, the Good, the Bad and the Caffeine offers a raw, faith-filled answer. This powerful guide recognizes the transition from high school to college or university as one of the most vulnerable yet transformative stages of a young person’s life. But this book is not only for teenagers, it is also for mothers, fathers, caregivers, churches, and communities who stand alongside them in this defining moment.
Rooted in the African proverb “It takes a village to raise a child,” Thobekile weaves wisdom, humor, and unflinching truth into every page. Written in a conversational, relatable tone like advice from your OGs who’ve already walked the road, it addresses real struggles: the shock of city life, the pressure of academics, the challenge of new identities, and the balance between independence and cultural roots. Each section provides spiritual grounding while offering practical tools that guide both teens and their parents through this season of change.
But at its heart, A Mother’s Prayer is a message of love and intercession. Thobekile’s words remind every parent: your voice, your teachings, and your prayers remain the guiding light as your child spreads their wings. Her heartfelt blessing, “Dear Mother, I’ve heard your cries”, honors the sacrifices of mothers everywhere and affirms that their role continues long after graduation gowns are worn.
